$解:①BE取5,理由如下$
$\frac {BD}{BA}=\frac {9-6}9=\frac 13,\frac {BE}{BC}=\frac 5{15}=\frac 13$
$∴\frac {BD}{BA}=\frac {BE}{BC},又∠B=∠B$
$∴△DBE∽△ABC$
$②BE取\frac 95,理由如下:$
$\frac {BD}{BC}=\frac {9-6}{15}=\frac 15,\frac {BE}{AB}=\frac {\frac 95}9=\frac 15$
$∴\frac {BD}{BC}=\frac {BE}{AB},又∠B=∠B$
$∴△DEB∽△ABC$
$综上所述,BE应取5或\frac 95$