解:$(1)$如图,$CD$即为所求作
$(2)$如图,$△A'B'C’$即为所求作
$(3) $如图,连接$AA'、$$C'D、$$AC'、$$BC'$
则$S_{四边形AA'C'D}=S_{△AA}'C+S_{△AC}'D$
$=S_{△AA}'C'+S_{△AC}'B-S_{△BC}'D$
$=\frac {1}{2} ×5×3+ \frac {1}{2}×1×5- \frac {1}{2} ×1×2$
$=9$
即以$A、$$A'、$$C'、$$D$为顶点的四边形的面积为$9$